Midgie,

I have been clear about this, but will repeat it: I am not interested in attacking your faith. I am not interested in changing your mind, nor have I presented myself in such a manner. If by "sweet talker" you mean "polite," that will not change. I certainly could communicate in the nasty, arrogant tone of many individuals here. However, that is not conducive to any conversation.
I cannot provide testimonies until there is an understanding of what "transformation" is. You understand it through the lens of Catholicism. Continually asserting that there is no transformation outside of Christ is meaningless unless there are some criteria to denote "transformation."
Once again, and hopefully for the final time, I have no interest in changing your mind about your relationship with Jesus, the Catholic Church, your belief, etc.

"Stupidity is the basic building block of the universe."

Zappa