MN wrote:
If by "sweet talker" you mean "polite," that will not change.


Passive aggressive is more like it.

God bless you

"Now I beseech you, brethren, through the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfected together in the same mind and in the same judgment." 
~ 1 Cor 1:10