Hey garee, most of what you've said, I've seen in your posts before, and I've probably replied to it before. So I'll just pick out one paragraph of yours.

I believe if God can tell a flower where and how to grow and the wind which way to blow .He surely knows the difference between who is the Bless-er (cause) and who is the blessed (effect) Mary cannot cause anything to happen that God has not already determined will happen . The clay He is shaping has no power/authority over Him who is executing His will exactly as He has so desired it to be .

So is it a waste of time to pray for someone? Don't you believe that God answers prayers? Or do you think He just does what He's decided, and if it coincides with our prayers, so much the better?

Remember Jesus' parable and lesson?

5 And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, "Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; 6 for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.' 7 And he answers from within, "Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.' 8 I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs. 9 "So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. 10 For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.
Jesus says that if we ask (pray for), it will be given. He doesn't say the Father already decided whether or not to give Him what He asks, He uses the parable to show how important it is to pray for our needs.

Of course God knows what He will do, He knows everything from the past, present and future. But that's not to say that He wouldn't have had another plan had not the person prayed for a particular need. He's not forced into anything, and He won't answer our prayer in the way we want if that way is the wrong way.

So, if Mary prays for us, she's likewise not forcing Him to do anything. She didn't force Jesus to come up with wine at the wedding feast, she merely told Him they had no wine, and then told the stewards to do whatever Jesus told them to do. So, she can't force Him now. She can only do what we can do. She can ask. She can pray for us.

And that's all we ask her to do.

Will you pray for me?

Radar