Kat it is hard to lose parents when you're young but just think of how it must have been for your parents - falling in love and marrying at a time of life when they might have felt like loved passed them by. And then to be blessed with two daughters! I am sure you kept them young. I have a worker who is 62 and her daughter is 20. She loves having young people in her house and really enjoys her daughter being around with all of the benign chaos a 20 yr old brings to her life.